I was wondering! Over democracy…in which
everyone has a say,a voice, a choice. Many people talk about it and most of
them talk about it in a positive way. It is ‘superior’ to any other system
because it is ‘non-hierarchic’ (I love the paradoxes of life).
Love, like democracy is also very busy in
the eloquence of its letters. Religion, almost all, practice love or rather
promotes the concept of love with its
limitations in the bold letters. (I can’t stop laughing!)
Love (which is fluid as per the
discussions) should be limited within the limits of society, culture, religion.
So, if you ‘fall’ (I disapprove of the verb) in love and the feeling flows to
you. Don’t start loving immediately. First think and rationalize…
1.
Social grounds : that includes
10 families known to you.
2.
Cultural grounds : an
institutionalized nonsense.
3.
Psychological grounds : universal
p e r s o n a l I t y
4.
Etc and etc and etc
BUT love
Verify
1.
Whether it is sexual, keeping
in mind that sex is a sin
2.
Whether it is incest, which is
claimed to be biologically harmful such as smoking, drinking alcohol,
indigestion and acidity
3.
The person whom you love is a
male, a female or…well…any other gender is out of question. So, don’t ever
think of loving a queer, if you are a ‘normal’ human being.
4.
Age group
5.
Caste
6.
Race
7.
Etc
…After that if you are in
love then love with patience and
passion (paradox intended)
I hate this idea of
undemocratic love.
Hate: well, there is no burden of any sort
of verification in it. Wow!
You can hate anyone, anything, anywhere
irrespective of caste, creed, gender and the etceteras …
To be honest I love the democracy of
hatred.
I was wondering! Over democracy…in which everyone has a say,a voice, a choice. Many people talk about it and most of them talk about i...